2 guys..........?

okay so i rele like this guy [no names]

but i dohave a fiancee,

i guess the reason i like him is b.c of the fact that he looks JUST LIKE my fiancee and since he lives 3 hours away i have him for the boyfriend part and the guy i like for the visual aspect of it? is this "normal" to connect these things?

i mean and when this guy gets a g.f my heart just sinks.

yew think its cuz i have connected those 2 and i look @ him like my fiancee? is this normal?

2 guys..........?
This is not normal, I dont think you should risk or wreck what you have with you're fiance by going out ot getting too close to this person. I guess your fiance wont be away for ever.

My gf and I live in different countries but we still keep touch.

(although we arent exclusive anymore but none of us has seen someone else yet)
Reply:Look like any human you are normal, and it sounds like now you may be having second thoughts about a committed relationship. What I would suggest to your fiancee is that you put things on hold until you are 100% percent sure that you want to be committed to one individual. If you are only 99% sure then you are not committed. The last thing you want to do is to get married and then involved in an affair. Really there is too much of that going on now in our society. Just tell your fiancee that you think maybe both of you should just be cool and maybe both of you see other people. When you get through with this you will know if you want to proceeed with your fiancee or just be an easy goer and just date and enjoy life and your youth. Really you should enjoy your youth and your life, because once you get married, marriage is daily hard work of comprimising and getting along with your spouse. Mortgage payments bills and everything else in life is really something that you really need to think about. But if you find that special someone that you really think you can work through life's hard times no matter what, then you better latch on to him, because good and decent guys and girls are really so hard to find.