Does he really love me?

He cheated on me 2 and didn't tell me the 1st time...i still stayed by his side and everything....even though he did that. Well he says srry and thank you to me all the time.//// he says that im the first gurl that he said i love yew to and actually meant it.. im only 14 and he's 16 but we don't care.... he still says that he loves me and that he will never not love me....but the thing is right now we're not goin out we are committed friends with benifits....well i want to be more...I wan't to know..does he really love me or does he just want some a**?

Does he really love me?
what i am seeing from him is HE is a KID who loves just loves himself...... what he can do is SAYING he loves u , thats it.... he can't even PROVE his love ( by the fact that he cheated on u twice) ...... I bet in his mind, ur just a naive girl who believes whatever he says........



Now , I just have 2 advise for you my dear :



1. Don't believe in what a guy says to you, just LOOK at what they can DO for you ! That's the best way to tell if someone love you truely or not

2. I know its hard for u to do this , but I still wanna say it : LEAVE HIM and MOVE ON ....... Ur too young and unexperienced in love, if you keep going like this u will end up hurting urself....... I think its the best for u to focus on school first..... Boys come later ....



Good luck and Merry Christmas !!!
Reply:Sounds like he is confused. Report It
Reply:cheating never is aresult to love
Reply:You are too young to be with a 16 year old boy! Just tell him to go away and find someone that you actually love!
Reply:well to me get sum a$$ come if he wasnt commited to u and asked to be friends wit benefitz nothin more

idk but its wat u filL!
Reply:to tell you the truth i man who is older than you will tell you anything and everything that you want to know..especially if your younger because he looks at you as a friends or more should i say a booty call i odn't think he really cares about you i used to be in the same problem you deserve better i think that you should get out and move on for someone who really love you and take care of you..i hope you take this advice i swear it's the best that you can do.
Reply:girl RUN!!!

youre 14 if he has already cheated on you twice then.. what makes you think that he wont do it again?? bcuz he will i promise you that.. (if hes not already)..

you are young and you will find someone much better than that.. love dont get that good
Reply:I agree with pplz1st. Stop giving him a** and find out the truth. After all, he cheated on u twice...there could be something wronng. Hope this helped!!!
Reply:16 year old guys want nothing but action. I doubt he really loves you he is probably just using you for action. If he did love you he wouldnt have cheated on you in the first place.
Reply:I don't think so. Sorry!

Tell him how you feel, and than you will be sure.



Maybe you should move on, find another.
Reply:at 14 he doesnt know what love is.
Reply:stop givin it to him and find out
Reply:Ask him in person. You can tell by his tone of voice, if it sounds serious then...yes. If it sounds like anything ordinary, then either he doesn't or he doesn't take you or love seriously.
Reply:Stop giving him your pu$$y..... Hes a cheater. move on..... Someone better will take care of your horniness, as I sense this is all you know.... good luck